The Duality of Robin Williams
A lot of people have been pretty upset about Robin Williams's suicide. Many reasons for their unhappiness are given. Ultimately, I think it boils down to this: If someone like Robin Williams - a man who ostensibly 'has it all' - finds life unworthy of the effort, what chance do the rest of us have? Be [...]
I is a Myth
It is said the greatest of all human addictions is that to one's self, which is to say, the addiction to an I that stands separate, alone, and ultimately doomed. Looking back it's pretty clear that the way I reinforced and ensured that addiction - the way all of us do - is by snatching [...]
Self-Inquiry for Children
As children we learn to trust the authority of the twin deities called 'mom' and 'dad' and then, a bit later, that same authority is transferred to the school gods known as teachers. As young children even our friends serve as erstwhile thought leaders, since they shed light into worlds (the homes around us) about which we [...]
The Power of Surrender
When I was a kid my mom used to caution that I was "too smart for my own good." She was right. We'll circle back to this in a moment. Recently I've been marveling at - and feeling gratitude for - the many and varied changes that seem to have unfolded within this vehicle called 'me' [...]
Seeing Beyond the Windows of the Soul
As I see it, each of us has but two choices to make in life: to use our existence to explore our own true nature, or to exist as a human. It's really that simple. If most mystical traditions are to be believed, the vast majority of us opt for the latter, and live out [...]
I Am Subject and Object – I Am Smobject
This thing called 'life' has kept me exceptionally busy of late. When this happens the little voice within can't be heard, drowned out by all the items on the To Do list, all the drama, the concepts running amok. Early this morning, however, the little voice was heard, lurking as it so often does behind [...]
Truth: The Keys to Our Cell Doors
One of movie history's great lines comes from Jack Nicholson's Marine Corps character in A Few Good Men, when he barks, "You can't handle the truth!" He's right. We can't. Well, we can, but that requires a turn of the worm, a willingness to challenge the thoughts that pop into our heads, pass from our [...]
Ever Want to Punch God in the Nose?
The most maddening thing about existence is that you can't just turn it off, can't exit the stage, can't really put an end to any of it. Suicide, you say? Well, sure, that's an option, but given that nobody has yet to blow out their brains and report back I've always thought there was some [...]
Happiness is to Drop the Search – and the Searcher
Many moons ago a sibling asked me why I was investing so much of my time and energy searching for life's meaning. "It doesn't get you anywhere, it's not making you any happier," or words to that effect. Oh but it will make me happy, I insisted, I just need to work harder at it. [...]
The Duality of Robin Williams
A lot of people have been pretty upset about Robin Williams's suicide. Many reasons for their unhappiness are given. Ultimately, I think it boils down to this: If someone like Robin Williams - a man who ostensibly 'has it all' - finds life unworthy of the effort, what chance do the rest of us have? Be [...]
I is a Myth
It is said the greatest of all human addictions is that to one's self, which is to say, the addiction to an I that stands separate, alone, and ultimately doomed. Looking back it's pretty clear that the way I reinforced and ensured that addiction - the way all of us do - is by snatching [...]
Self-Inquiry for Children
As children we learn to trust the authority of the twin deities called 'mom' and 'dad' and then, a bit later, that same authority is transferred to the school gods known as teachers. As young children even our friends serve as erstwhile thought leaders, since they shed light into worlds (the homes around us) about which we [...]
The Power of Surrender
When I was a kid my mom used to caution that I was "too smart for my own good." She was right. We'll circle back to this in a moment. Recently I've been marveling at - and feeling gratitude for - the many and varied changes that seem to have unfolded within this vehicle called 'me' [...]
Seeing Beyond the Windows of the Soul
As I see it, each of us has but two choices to make in life: to use our existence to explore our own true nature, or to exist as a human. It's really that simple. If most mystical traditions are to be believed, the vast majority of us opt for the latter, and live out [...]
I Am Subject and Object – I Am Smobject
This thing called 'life' has kept me exceptionally busy of late. When this happens the little voice within can't be heard, drowned out by all the items on the To Do list, all the drama, the concepts running amok. Early this morning, however, the little voice was heard, lurking as it so often does behind [...]
Truth: The Keys to Our Cell Doors
One of movie history's great lines comes from Jack Nicholson's Marine Corps character in A Few Good Men, when he barks, "You can't handle the truth!" He's right. We can't. Well, we can, but that requires a turn of the worm, a willingness to challenge the thoughts that pop into our heads, pass from our [...]
Ever Want to Punch God in the Nose?
The most maddening thing about existence is that you can't just turn it off, can't exit the stage, can't really put an end to any of it. Suicide, you say? Well, sure, that's an option, but given that nobody has yet to blow out their brains and report back I've always thought there was some [...]
Happiness is to Drop the Search – and the Searcher
Many moons ago a sibling asked me why I was investing so much of my time and energy searching for life's meaning. "It doesn't get you anywhere, it's not making you any happier," or words to that effect. Oh but it will make me happy, I insisted, I just need to work harder at it. [...]
